Hey,
I'm 20 and a girl and I suppose the title is a bit silly given I've just come out of a long term relationship, but I've never been approached or flirted with or anything at all from the opposite sex. I feel like I'm a really nice person to be around but it's difficult to meet new people and get to know them when it seems I'm a bit too ugly or the type of person who is possibly too nice and not 'sexy' enough (cringe but couldn't think of a way to phrase it). I have some close male friends and I generally get on well with everyone but I feel so unconfident in my looks. I am taking care of myself and dressing well, and I have plenty going on in my own life so I'm not uninteresting. But everyone seems to have had someone in their lifetime come up to them interested (whilst sober) and I haven't.
Is this all down to how I might look or something else? Is there something I can change? :(
I'm 20 and a girl and I suppose the title is a bit silly given I've just come out of a long term relationship, but I've never been approached or flirted with or anything at all from the opposite sex. I feel like I'm a really nice person to be around but it's difficult to meet new people and get to know them when it seems I'm a bit too ugly or the type of person who is possibly too nice and not 'sexy' enough (cringe but couldn't think of a way to phrase it). I have some close male friends and I generally get on well with everyone but I feel so unconfident in my looks. I am taking care of myself and dressing well, and I have plenty going on in my own life so I'm not uninteresting. But everyone seems to have had someone in their lifetime come up to them interested (whilst sober) and I haven't.
Is this all down to how I might look or something else? Is there something I can change? :(
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