Ok first off. I'm 23, female.
I've been seeing guy 1 (let's call him Matt) for about 2 months. We're not official but I'm pretty sure it's headed that way. He is the most generous, lovely and attentive guy I've been with. There was an instant spark and we get on brilliantly. He's not my usual type and I will admit I wasn't physically attracted to him at first. Even now I don't look at him and think "wow".. But I'm not repulsed by him either. We just click so well the physical stuff doesn't seem as important
Just before Christmas I met guy 2 (let's call him Dan). We met on a night out through mutual friends. He is ridiculously good looking... I think maybe the best looking guy I've ever seen in real life. We kissed in the club and spent the night together (me and Matt weren't exclusive at this point) and exchanged numbers. We got on well and he is really funny. Obviously we didn't spend long enough together to know if there was any spark. I didn't hear from him for ages and the thought nothing of it, although I did think about him from time to time and have a little Facebook stalk.
Yesterday, he texted me out of the blue asking if I want to go for a drink.
I'm so torn. I don't want to ruin things with Matt.
.. But part of me is scared of not taking a chance with Dan. I'm so confused.
I've been seeing guy 1 (let's call him Matt) for about 2 months. We're not official but I'm pretty sure it's headed that way. He is the most generous, lovely and attentive guy I've been with. There was an instant spark and we get on brilliantly. He's not my usual type and I will admit I wasn't physically attracted to him at first. Even now I don't look at him and think "wow".. But I'm not repulsed by him either. We just click so well the physical stuff doesn't seem as important
Just before Christmas I met guy 2 (let's call him Dan). We met on a night out through mutual friends. He is ridiculously good looking... I think maybe the best looking guy I've ever seen in real life. We kissed in the club and spent the night together (me and Matt weren't exclusive at this point) and exchanged numbers. We got on well and he is really funny. Obviously we didn't spend long enough together to know if there was any spark. I didn't hear from him for ages and the thought nothing of it, although I did think about him from time to time and have a little Facebook stalk.
Yesterday, he texted me out of the blue asking if I want to go for a drink.
I'm so torn. I don't want to ruin things with Matt.
.. But part of me is scared of not taking a chance with Dan. I'm so confused.
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