I have placed two messages on this forum. I have had replies in terms of access to information which had differing perspectives. Many have stated that their SO has access to all facebook, email, passwords, etc, etc and the relationship is on trust and transparency (Love that word, going to be in with the therapist next time).
Others state that when I snoop around or access information though none-savoury methods, that it is wrong, implying that my SO and me should lead separate, private online lives with no password sharing, etc, etc.
I'm talking transparency in a relationship, how I don't have it (we have separate bank accounts for ch**st sakes) and need to understand who has it, how they got it, what negotiations took place to achieve it, and above all, how to get it when your SO does not want it.
Others state that when I snoop around or access information though none-savoury methods, that it is wrong, implying that my SO and me should lead separate, private online lives with no password sharing, etc, etc.
I'm talking transparency in a relationship, how I don't have it (we have separate bank accounts for ch**st sakes) and need to understand who has it, how they got it, what negotiations took place to achieve it, and above all, how to get it when your SO does not want it.
Put the internet to work for you.
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