I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. recent months it has gone from us unable to keep our hands off each other to him being utterly disinterested in me.
I dont know what to do, I have tried cuteness, dressing up naughty, being feisty and forward and being gentle and soft, massages, ignoring him, being aloof. everything. :( He rejects me at every turn to the point where we only have sex ~once a week if im lucky and then he only lasts about 5 minutes, unloads and thats it, i dont get to finish or even get started and it ends up being more frustrating that if he has rejected me. we used to go for hours almost every night :(
when i try talking to him about it so i can fix it he just makes a joke, or gets annoyed. He just does everything to be impossible to talk to and its so frustrating :(
It might seem really funny to you... ha ha this girl is sexually deprived... but its really deeply hurting me. I feel like there must be something wrong with me to make him not want me in that way. my self esteem has just plummeted with rejection after rejection. i feel really mislead because he's so complementary. I am scared that eventually I will be so fed up and upset that I stop being attracted to him and become bored and want to leave and the relationship will just die off... i know sex isnt everything but i believe it is important for an adult relationship to work (ofc no disrespect to people who believe in no sex before marriage)
i dont know what to do, has anyone else had any experience of this situation? any advice?
I dont know what to do, I have tried cuteness, dressing up naughty, being feisty and forward and being gentle and soft, massages, ignoring him, being aloof. everything. :( He rejects me at every turn to the point where we only have sex ~once a week if im lucky and then he only lasts about 5 minutes, unloads and thats it, i dont get to finish or even get started and it ends up being more frustrating that if he has rejected me. we used to go for hours almost every night :(
when i try talking to him about it so i can fix it he just makes a joke, or gets annoyed. He just does everything to be impossible to talk to and its so frustrating :(
It might seem really funny to you... ha ha this girl is sexually deprived... but its really deeply hurting me. I feel like there must be something wrong with me to make him not want me in that way. my self esteem has just plummeted with rejection after rejection. i feel really mislead because he's so complementary. I am scared that eventually I will be so fed up and upset that I stop being attracted to him and become bored and want to leave and the relationship will just die off... i know sex isnt everything but i believe it is important for an adult relationship to work (ofc no disrespect to people who believe in no sex before marriage)
i dont know what to do, has anyone else had any experience of this situation? any advice?
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