Should have posted this at start of the month..
Did exams affect your relationship?
I say this because I am concerned with my gf.
I appreciate she needs to focus on exams, I have few provlems saying they are more important than me, at keast for now.
But for exam weeks her contact has been minimal and by that I mean I contact first, she responds in blunt sentences, the way she talks she's either exhausted or disinterested. I haven't seen properly in a month.
She hasn't explained whether we're on hold until after exams. She's not fully communicating.
I just feel unwanted. I'll say I miss you etc. and she won't say anything back. In fact she tends to say good night at this point even if it's eg only 8pm
I've already said how she yelled at me a couple of days ago over nothing and showed no sympathy for my band rejection. She does ask how I am though, it's the I miss you etc. Which she's seeming to ignore which is weird.
If it helps she has strict Asian parents and her family maynor may not be abusive/neglectful of her. So they nay be pressuring hwr too much.
What is the best approach? Exams seem to have consumed her. I am trying to be real but calm about grades and studies. Or maybe I am just too relaxed about the future in an economic recession.
I also have my paranoia she's losing interest/falling for someone else such as her guy friend, but that can wait until after exams as it may indeed just be paranoia.
Did exams affect your relationship?
I say this because I am concerned with my gf.
I appreciate she needs to focus on exams, I have few provlems saying they are more important than me, at keast for now.
But for exam weeks her contact has been minimal and by that I mean I contact first, she responds in blunt sentences, the way she talks she's either exhausted or disinterested. I haven't seen properly in a month.
She hasn't explained whether we're on hold until after exams. She's not fully communicating.
I just feel unwanted. I'll say I miss you etc. and she won't say anything back. In fact she tends to say good night at this point even if it's eg only 8pm
I've already said how she yelled at me a couple of days ago over nothing and showed no sympathy for my band rejection. She does ask how I am though, it's the I miss you etc. Which she's seeming to ignore which is weird.
If it helps she has strict Asian parents and her family maynor may not be abusive/neglectful of her. So they nay be pressuring hwr too much.
What is the best approach? Exams seem to have consumed her. I am trying to be real but calm about grades and studies. Or maybe I am just too relaxed about the future in an economic recession.
I also have my paranoia she's losing interest/falling for someone else such as her guy friend, but that can wait until after exams as it may indeed just be paranoia.
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