Through counseling we've gotten much stronger in our marriage, he understand boundaries, he understands why he latched too closely onto friendships and how that it's not healthy for our marriage. I realize that I contribute to problems with my reactions. We both have issues to work on and we're definitely stronger than in the past.
But, he doesn't have a network of friends and he says it's not a big deal, he'd like friends but he always had a hard time communicating with others and he's ok with just a little bit here and there. I think overall this will be a big problem....but what do I do? I have some friends but they're NOT "couple" friends. Guys don't easily make friends like women do. Many of his coworkers are women and so going down that road is not a great idea in my opinion (and he understands and agrees it won't help our marriage). So how do we FIX THIS?
But, he doesn't have a network of friends and he says it's not a big deal, he'd like friends but he always had a hard time communicating with others and he's ok with just a little bit here and there. I think overall this will be a big problem....but what do I do? I have some friends but they're NOT "couple" friends. Guys don't easily make friends like women do. Many of his coworkers are women and so going down that road is not a great idea in my opinion (and he understands and agrees it won't help our marriage). So how do we FIX THIS?
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