Ok heres the deal. 5 years ago I had a very close 'online' friend when I was foing through a difficult time in my life. We also met up in real life a few times, he lives in another country so we probably only met on 10 occasions in all. Anyway, when we met up sometimes we used to kiss, we were both quite lonely people and never kissed anyone (we were 17) so we thought, why not.
The last time I was him was 3 and half years ago. We then drifted apart, we used to email each other every few months or so but then not even that. We kind of thought we didn't want to develop 'real' feelings for each other because of how far we lived apart and also we are from very different cultures.
Anyone, yesterday out of the blue I got an email from him, after almost a year of no contact. I was very surprised, but more so when he says that he is in UK right now and asked if I want to meet up.
But heres the thing....for 3 years I've been in a relationship, and my boyfriend will not be ok with me meeting up with this guy. I don't think he'd let me meet up with any guy tbh, but theres never been that problem before because I have 0 guy friends and hardly any girl friends for that matter.... I think he would dump me if I met him. He's not really jealous I don't think, I'm not sure what the reasoning is but he just wouldn't be ok with it.
Is it bad if I do meet him? I haven't decided what I'm going to do......Like do you think its wrong to meet someone who you kissed in the past when you have a bf?
The last time I was him was 3 and half years ago. We then drifted apart, we used to email each other every few months or so but then not even that. We kind of thought we didn't want to develop 'real' feelings for each other because of how far we lived apart and also we are from very different cultures.
Anyone, yesterday out of the blue I got an email from him, after almost a year of no contact. I was very surprised, but more so when he says that he is in UK right now and asked if I want to meet up.
But heres the thing....for 3 years I've been in a relationship, and my boyfriend will not be ok with me meeting up with this guy. I don't think he'd let me meet up with any guy tbh, but theres never been that problem before because I have 0 guy friends and hardly any girl friends for that matter.... I think he would dump me if I met him. He's not really jealous I don't think, I'm not sure what the reasoning is but he just wouldn't be ok with it.
Is it bad if I do meet him? I haven't decided what I'm going to do......Like do you think its wrong to meet someone who you kissed in the past when you have a bf?
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