So its like this:
When people start secondary school everyone kind of talks to each other and you can be friends with anyone. Its easy.
However as the years go by and people grow these friendships groups form and this leaves certain people stranded like "wait where is my group, I don't have a group"
In this case me.
I don't have a group of friends to share good times with, experience new thins with or whatever. Every friday night people would be out with their mates having a blast or at their friend's house watching a film or whatever. I just stay at home doing random stuff on the computer hoping that maybe I would have a group of friends to be with. Someone my age I can share my problems with.
I'm not a loner at school as in I have a laugh with friends in between classes (and in classes as well :P) but I have no "real" friends that are close enough to me that I would be with outside of school with. I don't have good enough friends that would invite me to go to events or their house or whatever. Why should they bother? They have a group of their closest friends. I cannot invite them to spend time with as I wouldn't be that good friends with them so it would just be weird.
Rectify the problem you say. Well I have tried but people already are content with their groups so what is it to them to let me in. Besides I cannot cling to certain people as that would seem desperate. I can't just become a part of a friendship group. That's forced. These groups have evolved naturally over time and I can't break through. I'm stranded.
Join activities out of school and find close friends who share those interests with you, you might say. I have tried to join many clubs and activities out of school before but people there have their own lives and have their own friends that I don't even know so why would they take interest in me like that? So no joining new clubs and stuff won't help either
People work hard for their GCSE so they can do well, get good grades and know that they can have a blast in the summer after but for me this just means being alone for 2 months in my house. I don't let these distract me from my work; I think I am working hard and will do so until my GCSE's are over but there is nothing to look forward to.
Its sad knowing no one apart from family really cares about me.
What should I do? Thanks
When people start secondary school everyone kind of talks to each other and you can be friends with anyone. Its easy.
However as the years go by and people grow these friendships groups form and this leaves certain people stranded like "wait where is my group, I don't have a group"
In this case me.
I don't have a group of friends to share good times with, experience new thins with or whatever. Every friday night people would be out with their mates having a blast or at their friend's house watching a film or whatever. I just stay at home doing random stuff on the computer hoping that maybe I would have a group of friends to be with. Someone my age I can share my problems with.
I'm not a loner at school as in I have a laugh with friends in between classes (and in classes as well :P) but I have no "real" friends that are close enough to me that I would be with outside of school with. I don't have good enough friends that would invite me to go to events or their house or whatever. Why should they bother? They have a group of their closest friends. I cannot invite them to spend time with as I wouldn't be that good friends with them so it would just be weird.
Rectify the problem you say. Well I have tried but people already are content with their groups so what is it to them to let me in. Besides I cannot cling to certain people as that would seem desperate. I can't just become a part of a friendship group. That's forced. These groups have evolved naturally over time and I can't break through. I'm stranded.
Join activities out of school and find close friends who share those interests with you, you might say. I have tried to join many clubs and activities out of school before but people there have their own lives and have their own friends that I don't even know so why would they take interest in me like that? So no joining new clubs and stuff won't help either
People work hard for their GCSE so they can do well, get good grades and know that they can have a blast in the summer after but for me this just means being alone for 2 months in my house. I don't let these distract me from my work; I think I am working hard and will do so until my GCSE's are over but there is nothing to look forward to.
Its sad knowing no one apart from family really cares about me.
What should I do? Thanks
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