So about 2 weeks, a bit out of the blue, my gf broke up with me. She told me that she didn't have time for a relationship right now and she brought our 10 mth old relationship to a close. She's got a load of uni exams atm so I guess the stress she was under got too much and she decided to cut me out.
I'm gutted by this so much right now. I never wanted to be like a burden to her and made sure not to be. She told me she still wants to be friends but I said I didn't know whether I could really agree to that and she started crying. I told her I needed time to sort stuff out and couldn't really see her for a while. About 3 days later, I told her that I did want to be friends cos I still want her as a part of my life but it was going to be difficult cos I still really like her and will do for a while. She told me she was v happy to hear that and said she still likes me but that was why she had to say what she did.
Since then, i've tried to go "cold turkey" and not have any contact with her but its killing me. She's respected my wishes not to talk to me but I feel like I've ****ed up massively by trying to do that. I just remember how happy we were over Christmas when we met up and the fact she told me she still has feelings for me. I badly want to speak to her but don't want to cause drama for her right now with exams. The more time I don't speak to her though, the worse I feel.
If she says she still likes me, can I win her back? Will not talking to her worsen the chances of that happening and make her think I don't care or that she can do without me? I just don't know what to do.
I'm gutted by this so much right now. I never wanted to be like a burden to her and made sure not to be. She told me she still wants to be friends but I said I didn't know whether I could really agree to that and she started crying. I told her I needed time to sort stuff out and couldn't really see her for a while. About 3 days later, I told her that I did want to be friends cos I still want her as a part of my life but it was going to be difficult cos I still really like her and will do for a while. She told me she was v happy to hear that and said she still likes me but that was why she had to say what she did.
Since then, i've tried to go "cold turkey" and not have any contact with her but its killing me. She's respected my wishes not to talk to me but I feel like I've ****ed up massively by trying to do that. I just remember how happy we were over Christmas when we met up and the fact she told me she still has feelings for me. I badly want to speak to her but don't want to cause drama for her right now with exams. The more time I don't speak to her though, the worse I feel.
If she says she still likes me, can I win her back? Will not talking to her worsen the chances of that happening and make her think I don't care or that she can do without me? I just don't know what to do.
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