Ok going to try and keep this short.
-Met a girl, started to like her in that way but she'd just broken up with her bf of 2 years (she's 16) so didnt want to tell her until she was over him.
-After about a month or so she noticed I was acting different and I ended up telling her.
-She said because she wasn't over her last bf she didnt feel the same way. I was upset but resigned to the fact it wasnt going to happen.
-Then she started to become closer to me, started talking more and getting really flirty
- I asked her about it a couple of weeks later, a kindof 'where are we', and she said that she didnt know what she wanted. I said I would continue as we were and wait until she was over her ex so she could make a proper decision.
-This went on for a month, talking almost all the time, spending more time with each other. However, she was still worried about what her ex might think and we ended up having a bit of an argument about it and I said I would give her a week to make a decision about what she wanted.
-She met up with her ex and told him that they were never going to happen again but she still wanted to be friends with him. We spent more time together, kindof like on dates last week but on friday she kept getting calls and texts from him asking where she was and who she was with. She got pretty stressed out about it.
- Over the weekend we skyped loads, and she sent me some cheeky snapchats....
- Tomorrow was the day that I gave her to make a decision by, but she said she wanted to talk to me about it today. She said that she really likes me but doesnt want a relationship right now because she still feels guilty like shes betraying her ex. We went for a hug goodbye and I kindof tried to kiss her but she said no, that it wouldnt be right if she kissed me back :(
So yeah, sorry this probably makes no sense, but really not sure what to do. I really like her and can really see us working together but dont know how much more of this I can handle.
Some advice would be appreciated :)
-Met a girl, started to like her in that way but she'd just broken up with her bf of 2 years (she's 16) so didnt want to tell her until she was over him.
-After about a month or so she noticed I was acting different and I ended up telling her.
-She said because she wasn't over her last bf she didnt feel the same way. I was upset but resigned to the fact it wasnt going to happen.
-Then she started to become closer to me, started talking more and getting really flirty
- I asked her about it a couple of weeks later, a kindof 'where are we', and she said that she didnt know what she wanted. I said I would continue as we were and wait until she was over her ex so she could make a proper decision.
-This went on for a month, talking almost all the time, spending more time with each other. However, she was still worried about what her ex might think and we ended up having a bit of an argument about it and I said I would give her a week to make a decision about what she wanted.
-She met up with her ex and told him that they were never going to happen again but she still wanted to be friends with him. We spent more time together, kindof like on dates last week but on friday she kept getting calls and texts from him asking where she was and who she was with. She got pretty stressed out about it.
- Over the weekend we skyped loads, and she sent me some cheeky snapchats....
- Tomorrow was the day that I gave her to make a decision by, but she said she wanted to talk to me about it today. She said that she really likes me but doesnt want a relationship right now because she still feels guilty like shes betraying her ex. We went for a hug goodbye and I kindof tried to kiss her but she said no, that it wouldnt be right if she kissed me back :(
So yeah, sorry this probably makes no sense, but really not sure what to do. I really like her and can really see us working together but dont know how much more of this I can handle.
Some advice would be appreciated :)
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