Another husband here in a sexless marriage. We're both very physically fit. Kids are older now and in school all day. She only works part-time. (cant use those as excuses) She says she enjoys it when it does happen, just has no desire and could care less about it. For it to ever happen it HAS to be a big production that takes like a couple hours. But then there is never enough time - vicious circle. Had a big talk about it last spring. Of course things improved for a short time, then back to the old ways and not one time since. It's like we're roommates just putting on a show for the sake of family and the kids. Don't even sleep in the same room now - wouldnt change things if we did since she will not do it if the kids are in the house anyways (and its a pretty big house with locks on the door!). She's completely fine with it and not willing to change so as I see it, it's down to me having to live with it or separate. Am I missing any options? Is going wi thout sex really worth breaking apart a family and losing a couple hundred grand? I dont want to cross the fence and learn that the grass ISNT greener after all. If yes, is it better to give an ultimatum first or just blind-side her and say that its time to go?
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