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My girlfriend is miserable, cba with intimacy and I don’t know what to do?

Im 26 and have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. The first few months were great as she wanted to impress me all the time as I did for her and we were so happy and very quickly time passed and times changed.. she has pretty much lived at my parents home with me and weve been on a few holidays and various trips or days out and not one has been good for me because of her mood. She just became more and more miserable and dull! Ive tried everything and its just never fixed for more than a day! She moans about her job but does nothing, she moans about her weight (she quit the gym) and what she looks like every day. I tell her the truth - how beautiful, tiny and perfect she is but it doesnt last 5mins.. (shes like a 23 yr old size 8 that looks identical to Emma Willis UK tv presenter)I am a happy positive guy that recently started studying a degree in animation and love to keep fit and am a bit of a romantic! But nothing I do is good enough and appreciated and im losing the strength to carry on. I feel like im being emotional drained each day more and more by her and her depressive mind set. We argue a hell of a lot mainly over me being to nice or needy as she says and when I get annoyed by her not responding or because shes not nice like she once used to be she just lays on her phone either playing a game, on facebook or celebrity news written by The Mirror UK and says shes sorry and always tells me she tired.Im so fed up with it all and theres so much more that brings me here putting this into words but I just dont know what to do. I wish she'd see what she has compared to who she could be with after everything ive done and tried for her so far but if only she could stop being so miserable and anti social and maybe change her job she hates so much! Just going round and round in circles and its beginning to make me hate her. :'(

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