So I have been with my girlfriend for over a year. I want to continue to like her but there is this conflict I have been having with her.
She will be going off to college next year and she has told me that she plans to be involved with alcohol.
I have very strong opinions against alcohol because of what it has done to my friends and family and I can't bear the thought of continuing to go out with her if she does this.
We have already had a conversation about this and I didn't want to force her to make the decision not to drink (because I do not want to be controlling) so I instead tried to reason her into not wanting to do it. She refuted my arguments saying that it is a part of the college lifestyle and that there is very little legal risk.
I seriously do not know what to do because I do not want to tell her what she should do with her life. The only other option I see is to break up with her...
What should I do?
She will be going off to college next year and she has told me that she plans to be involved with alcohol.
I have very strong opinions against alcohol because of what it has done to my friends and family and I can't bear the thought of continuing to go out with her if she does this.
We have already had a conversation about this and I didn't want to force her to make the decision not to drink (because I do not want to be controlling) so I instead tried to reason her into not wanting to do it. She refuted my arguments saying that it is a part of the college lifestyle and that there is very little legal risk.
I seriously do not know what to do because I do not want to tell her what she should do with her life. The only other option I see is to break up with her...
What should I do?
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