I tend to become very attached and emotionally dependent on people. I have dealt a lot with rejection in the past from friends and guys I liked and now i'm terrified of it. I haven't been dumped yet or cheated on as far as i'm aware, but I have a fear of this happening to me at some point.
I know it will not be the end of my life, and it will go on, but I get depressed very easily and have suffered with suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and such, and I'm scared of it getting worse.
I'm currently in an almost 2-year relationship, and sometimes I feel like i'll drive my partner away because of my behaviour, and I want to stop.
I know he is with me because he loves me as I am, but I get scared of him finding someone better. He is the type of guy who seems to have girls interested in him at any point, and I know he has chosen me, but he seems to have an approach that if he left me for someone better, I shouldn't care and should be mature about it and move on, same as if I left him.
I'm aware that there are many girls who are more beautiful, more intelligent, funnier, more confident than me, and I'm sure many who would love to date him. On the other hand, it's extremely rare that guys are genuinely interested in me.
He has some female friends, and I'm secure because I know they aren't really his type, he doesn't find them drop dead gorgeous, loads in common etc. But I know he will meet someone like this eventually, and I can see her being a better match than me.
I have a home with him and I want a future with him. I'm just scared of this. Please could anyone stop me being irrational? I feel like I have to try and make myself the best in any way I can, so he wouldn't be tempted to look elsewhere. I'd be grateful for any advice, thanks a lot.
I know it will not be the end of my life, and it will go on, but I get depressed very easily and have suffered with suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and such, and I'm scared of it getting worse.
I'm currently in an almost 2-year relationship, and sometimes I feel like i'll drive my partner away because of my behaviour, and I want to stop.
I know he is with me because he loves me as I am, but I get scared of him finding someone better. He is the type of guy who seems to have girls interested in him at any point, and I know he has chosen me, but he seems to have an approach that if he left me for someone better, I shouldn't care and should be mature about it and move on, same as if I left him.
I'm aware that there are many girls who are more beautiful, more intelligent, funnier, more confident than me, and I'm sure many who would love to date him. On the other hand, it's extremely rare that guys are genuinely interested in me.
He has some female friends, and I'm secure because I know they aren't really his type, he doesn't find them drop dead gorgeous, loads in common etc. But I know he will meet someone like this eventually, and I can see her being a better match than me.
I have a home with him and I want a future with him. I'm just scared of this. Please could anyone stop me being irrational? I feel like I have to try and make myself the best in any way I can, so he wouldn't be tempted to look elsewhere. I'd be grateful for any advice, thanks a lot.
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