To Tell or Not?

Hi, I posted here last week. I needed some help about confronting my partner with evidence of her infidelity. We have been together for 10 years. I confronted her the Friday before last and after much denial she finally admitted it. She claims the affair was an EA. I'm not convinced. The evidence I found was sexual in nature and maybe she was having an EA, but she was about to have a PA. The problem is, she works with this person. She goes to another town two days a week for work and that is where the other person is. There is so much to say...but my main question here is that this other person also has a partner and they have been together for a long time. I have their address and their home phone number. I want to call the other person's partner and tell them about the affair, I think they have a right to know. The other side of it is, let's face it, revenge. I want to destroy the other person's life like they have mine. Is it right to let the partner know or am I letting my vengefulness cloud my reasoning? BTW - My partner leaves to go out of town tomorrow. I'm sure that she will see the other person.

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