| In summary, my wife went through the stereotypical midlife crises we all see on here so much. Got to be 40, freaked out, got plastic surgery, lost a bunch of weight, started lots of contact with men through facebook and texts. After about 2 years of fighting with her about her boundaries, she checked out of the marriage and didnt want to go to MC. I soon discovered that she was at least having an EA and likely a PA. Got VAR evidence, confronted and she chose divorce over working on the marriage. She has remained adamant that i never loved her and like so many others, i got the ILYBNILWY speech. We went through mediation, she moved out and we finanized the divorce In July 2013. All while her bible thumping mother has blamed me for everything to protect her daughter. We are the parents, and share joint custody of three great kids, 11,9,5-who like all kids, didnt deserve to have this happen to them. My journey on TAM started in September 2012 when I had suspicions of her EA/PA. My journey is chronicled in "wife's midlife crisis....what do i do?". So now I am posting here as I transition to single parenting, dating, and trying to emotionally move on from the nausiating last year i have had. | |||
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Rebuilding from the Ashes
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