Need Advice About A friend with benefits (posting on friends account)

i just recently saw my friend post something on here, and i realized how helpful it can be to not bottle up emotions, so im using his account to try to reach out for help. so in december i met my one really good friend and we constantly hung out, constantly called each other and would make plans. and around mid march, he and i realized we had feelings developing for each other. things seemed perfect, we would have sleep overs at least 4 times a week, would always try to pay for my gas or ciggs, i would always try to pay for our dates, we were just mutually happy. BUT he still hasnt asked me to be official, we've both determined that we are exclusive together, but no title, and usually i would be content with that (ive put up with it for 4 months now). these past couple days he has been extremely sketchy. Sunday: he and i got into an arguement in the morning and didnt talk all day while i was working. after i left work, my car broke down, and the minute i told him i was stuck an hour and a half away from home, he was on his way immediately, we talked everything over, he told me he was sorry and would talk to me more Monday: i call him on what should have been his lunch break..called him when he was supposed to be on his way home, both times he rushed me off the phone, neglected me all day...calls me and tells me i make him so so happy and he doesnt know what hed do with out me, i ask to make plans and he says "oh im calling it an early night i dont feel well"....later on he texts me and asks to come sleep over, then procedes to tell me he has to see me cuz hes drunk and upset and is gunna get fired and blah blah blah. i go to where he tells me to go and its a house party. he then gets extremely pissed about me not wanting to kiss him (remind you hes drunk) and when i tell him no, he calls me a b*tch, prick, asshole and c*nt...i ended up going home. Today: i wake up to a call from a random number and he tells me hes in jersey city with his cousin and lost his phone last night. i dont talk to him all day and just found out from a co-worker that he had taken off work on monday. he just called me not too long ago asking if i could sleep over and i told him he had to come explain himself....before anything else hurts me, please give me advice

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