I think...

My husband is up to something. I met the woman today... very flirty, touched his arm several times, once held it there right in front of me. I shot her a dirty look. Some white lies have surfaced, he claims she is married, she wore no wedding ring. There was a story about her dad, to which he corrected her your father in law, and she agreed... it was obviously a slip. Then later while we were in line for dinner (we were at an event) he said "You talking about my butt back there" to which she giggled. I directly asked him about this later to which he had some weird twisted circled reasoning that it was a joke.... He has been keeping his phone on his person. No real facebook activity and due to an organization we both deal with, I have access to his email so there is not going to be anything there. I am being calm, patient and a friend did some prelimary research and it appears she is divorced.... hence the no wedding ring, but my husband has said she IS married... Irregardless interaction between these two was ackward on my husbands part, she didn't seem to care at all about me standing there and while "pretending" to be friendly with me, twiddled something on the desk that was my husbands personal item. I am at this point, because of all the other problems in my marriage just wanting the truth. I have been monitoring times and amount of text messages, he snuck in some this evening, but I cannot gain access to his phone, as he has kept it on his person all night, until just putting it on the charger. I am hoping to get a glimpse at it when he falls asleep although I am not sure I will be able to stay up that long. HELP! What else should I be watching for? I just want to the truth to come out this time, and so I am not even letting him know any of this, or that the interactions today bothered me. I continued as the 180 says to pretend nothing was wrong, went about my usual nightly things, with the exception of not being able to sleep yet..... ADVICE?

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