Be honest women; do you consider good-looking guys to be superior to the average Joe?

Lately there have been a lot of threads with the generic stigma that obese people have no self-control and are lazy, making them repulsive (not always the case of course). Following on from this, it makes sense that those with the ideal physique would also be deemed 'superior' in various ways-not only physically more attractive but having very high degrees of self-control, discipline and (it's argued) self-respect. Contrary to the old knuckle-head stereotype, they're considered more intelligent because of all the skills perhaps developed such as organisation, time-keeping etc. You don't have to be muscle-bound like a massive body-builder but you do need to at least be fairly lean and have an attractive face to be deemed 'hot' or sexy. And it is quite explicitly suggested that those who improve their body are becoming better people as a whole! (Therefore by this logic, those who don't are inferior). Just about any fitness/'fitspiration' site you go would market itself on that. Hot guys get a lot more attention from *some* women. Not all of these women are vain or air-headed, in fact it's mostly 'alpha' females (even though my god I hate that term being used for either). And when I say 'alpha' it's not really a looks thing, they have something which puts them out of your league in character, the smartest, most talented, most self-assured and so on. Likewise they get more respect from other guys, almost a quiet fear. There are assumptions these are leaders, not to be messed with, and they have a right to look down upon you, even. I'm starting to resign myself to the fact that although it doesn't mean no-one would ever be interested, I'm never going to actually be as good or attractive as the model in H+M, Channing Tatum, Ryan Gosling etc...and that is all my fault, my failing. (I thought I was straight and I'm in a happy relationship but I think I'm bi-curious, confused) I feel I must be lacking something they have and it's not even the looks, I just feel inferior.I'd get the same sense of inadequacy if I was watching too much Superman/superheroes/fictional heroes like Aragorn (serious) And I'm treated that way too, pitiful. Obviously no-one should expect someone to just swoon over you as that's ridiculous and shallow, but they're condescending to me and it's very 'get out of my face'. They treat me as if I'm stupid and not worth their time-hell even my younger sister does this, and she's an incredibly headstrong and smart part-time model/dancer who wraps guys around her little finger. So surely she is, therefore, the more attractive person in more ways than one? I'm interested to see what people think. Be brutally honest, physical attraction is important for both sexes and especially at our age when we're all horny devils. What turns you on so much about a model/cookie-cutter type? And by extension what is it that's lacking in the average guy that they have, looks or otherwise? There must be something. I mean really, are we just inferior human beings to those guys? Is it not actually a case of being less attractive thing but a much greater character flaw? I sense that leagues are, despite being a pathetic social hierarchy born in the classroom, a reality in the adult dating world.

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