| I have been reading some of these threads and find them very interesting. My heart goes out to many who are struggling. 3 weeks ago I found my husband of almost 28 years watching porn on the internet. I think my response surprised both of us. I was shattered, and hugely distressed that he would prefer THAT to a living breathing me. It is disrespectful to me and all other decent women out there (and I'm no prude). We hashed it out and have made a lot of progress. Luckily we have a solid marriage and the ability to communicate, but it has not been easy and I am still not sure that he realizes exactly what a huge deal it was to me. Mostly at this point I am struggling with trust. I want to believe that he will do as he promises and stop this activity, but being human I have that little niggle of doubt. I have done a lot of reading about the subject which is how I ended up here. It is not a subject that I would feel comfortable discussing with ANYONE IRL, or even on other boards that I frequent. I guess I'm just really joining in and not lurking. | |||
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When you have had enough let it out. A forum style blog about relationship issues and concerns,join in and have your say.
Porn 'victim"
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