My wife never told me about

My wife and I got married a little over a year ago. We had a bit of a whirlwind romance but we both wanted to find the right person so when we met and instantly clicked, we realized pretty quickly that we were the ones for each other. Now, I'm not so sure. I was never a player and have only had three long term relationships before I met Becky. Becky, on the other hand, didn't want to give me details of her past but did say that her total was higher than mine. I sometimes wondered if she was a party girl in the past but whenever I wanted to discuss things, she would change the topic. Anyway, we got married and I was relieved to find out that our married life was good. She's friends with a girl, "Sarah." Sarah and her husband "Brad" are our neighbors. We get along well and we're often at each other's homes for parties and get-togethers. Last week we were at Sarah and Brad's at a party with a bunch of their friends. At one point I was having an umpteenth beer with a guy who was on his umpteenth beer when he said to me something along the lines of "you must be one hell of a confident dude." When I asked why, he said, "well given Becky and Brad's history." I was blindsided but didn't want to let on that Becky never told me. He added that Brad was one of his best friends and he knew all about his exploits with Becky "in the back door." He added, "but hey you know all this and Becky is probably all sorts of crazy with you." I didn't know what to say so I probably laughed and went to get another beer. In fact, Becky had never told me about her having any kind of relationship with Brad. I've really been stewing about this all week but don't know how to proceed. I can't believe our neighbor has had sex with Becky. To add injury to insult, Becky has never done anal with me even though I've wanted to and if Brad's buddy is not lying she did it with Brad a lot. What's the best way to handle this situation? I'm angry, I'm confused, I'm embarrassed, I'm having negative thoughts.

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