My Husband says I'm just using him for sex !!!

Yes that's what he said, I need to laugh about it because I have shed to many tears over this. It gets very depressing. I'm 42 my husband is 43 and we have two children We all went away for the weekend with some friends, after a long hiatus we had sex on Friday night. It was better than it had been, I thought he has been listening to me and we both really enjoyed it. After not doing a lot on Saturday we get into bed and he says "he's to tired", I get cranky. We come home Sunday night and after dinner I ask him if he's "tired", he gives me a WTF look and doesn't answer me. I get cranky again and I tell him that this isn't acceptable. We get into a heated discussion, he says "Im just using him for sex". I told him that I can't live like this for the next 42 years and if he's not going to change I will need to find someone else. He then tells me theres no point making an empty threat and maybe I should start looking. I know he was probably upset with me but anyone would think I'm wanting him to do something that isn't enjoyable. Makes me sad.

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