Met With My Ex For Coffee !

So i met with my ex earlier today. I was going in with the impression that i would spill all my emotions on the table at some point and apoligize and ask for her back and if she didn't take me back or atleast agree to take steps to build towards a new relationship i would walk and never talk to her again. Welp that didn't happen, but i'm way more pleased with what did. So i got to the coffee shop a little earlier, she arrived not to long after. When she first walked in my heart was beating 1000's harder than a humans should. I was so nervous. Luckily she said she had to go to the restroom real quick so before we even said hi or hugged she ran into the bathroom. Instantly i had an ephipany , my hole attitude changed. I realized that if i really want her back i have to build something completely new with her. I can't keep dweling on the past and apologizing. I had to move forward and show her i've changed. Which i have tremendously. So when she came out i gave her a light hug. We sat down and immediately she said ok so " What did you want to tell me". My stomatch dropped and i started mumbling a little(when i do this she loses respect for me) She then said "Don't beat around the bush just say it" At that point i could tell she was expecting me to get all emotional and beg for her back. Sooo. I didn't I switched gears. I sat up striaght relaxed my anxious self ,Embodied a sense of confidence and looked her dead in the eye. Alot has been going on with my life. Like ALOT. i'm am way more successful than i was when i was with her. Opportunities have been coming left and right. Basically i'm having the time of my life. So i told her what was going on. About me getting signed to a major record Label & all of the fun things i've been doing. I didn't try to boast or make myself seem better than her i was just honest about what was going on in my life. I was Very Humble and slightly Vague You should of seen the look in her eyes when i was telling her these things. She seemed so amazed and curious . And there i was just non chalantly sitting with my new haircut, new clothes, well fit body. God i know she felt something ! Because her attitude towards me changed. She started being .....................NICE Laughing at all my jokes, seeming verY interested, initiating conversation topics.(Things she NEVER did, She used to be soo cold) We really connected it was so great. When i asked what was going on with her she replied with the same ol same ol. How work sucks. Her friends suck. Her basketball career is on holt because of her torn acl. She hinted that she had noone really there for her. She also hinted that she wanted to see this movie but had noone to go with and was going to go even if she went alone. (I think that means isnt seeing anyone or to get me to ask if we could go together) I cut the meeting sort because i had to go. She seemed dissapointed. So i walked her to her car. We talked a little longer. I asked a few more questions about what was going on with her and that was it. Gave her a light hug and left. She said "It was good seeing you" With a big smile. I think i made a great impression on her. No i know i did. At first i didn't know what it took to get my ex to notice me in a positive light again but now i do & i know exactly what to do to get her back. I am not asking for advice on what i did because it already happened and i'm pleased so thats all that matters. I just really wanted to vent

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