How do you deal with the struggles of health issues?

How do you manage when you have no the time for each other? What if one or both partners suffer from fatigue? How do handle resent for situations that are beyond ones control? The fighting over decisions concerning the children's health or school. What if you feel you have lost yourself in hours of homework or fighting with the school for IEPs to be followed? Are there any threads here of those with children that have health needs? Spouses having serious chronic health issues? I feel that my own needs in the marriage have been unmet for so long that anger and disgust quickly appear. I wonder if I am meeting my spouses needs... I am sure some will mention, rely on family. That is not an option, they are in the area and tied up with babysitting for other family. I find it so frustrating but accept it. The most I can get is bus pick up two days a week. Lacking money and going out and paying babysitters is not really and option. Do not know of anyone else to swap the kids with for date night. I feel so angry that I amin this predicament and I feel like I am powerless. Sometimes I think of divorce but I think it would devastate the kids and would I be any happier? I am not interested in another relationship ever and I would be doing it all alone and now with a small amount of money. I think we have maybe four hours a week together and I often feel the time together is a chore for my spouse.

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