| Hello All! New here and a brief introduction: Married 20 years ago. First 10 were pretty good. STBXH had an affair almost 9 yrs ago. That ended; we trudged on. Due to many circumstances, I asked for separation last June, only to find out in Sept. that another affair had been going on since March or April from phone records :eek: (sheesh...gets them everytime! lol) Anywho...I am now living in an apartment with my DD17 and DS19 (my choice; marital home is a $$$ pit now up for short sale). Divorce filed by me in April with 90day wait period for finalization. In Nov of 2014 after DD17's graduation, I am moving back to my hometown with my DD17 :) :smthumbup: But until then, my issue has been the isolation. I am living in an area away from my hometown with no family close. Most of my friends here are married or committed so it's weird not being "a couple." And I think some have written me off, afraid divorce is contagious!! I am a manager at a small retail store and my shifts are solo so I spend 40 hrs alone at work then come home to my dear kids, who at 17 and 19, aren't keen on spending every night with mom! LOL Really?!? The area I live in is rural. Hoping to make some online friends and find out more ideas on how to deal with feeling lonely and isolated while going through divorce. Nice to meet everyone :) LivingAgain | |||
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A Hello and help with dealing with Isolation
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