Scared to make wrong decision

I will try to keep this as condensed as I can considering the subject matter. My husband and I have been together for 12 years and have a 9 year old daughter. For the past 5-6 years we have been very disconnected. I made the horrible mistake of having an affair and my husband inevitably found out. He was devastated but decided he wanted to stay with me and I was so guilt stricken that I swore I was going to use this "second chance" to make my marriage work. It has been 7 months since everything came out, and I feel like we are right back to where we were before. I am starting to think that maybe the only reason I decided to try to make things work was out of guilt. I don't feel like I am in love with him anymore but I am terrified of making the wrong decision. I don't want to hurt our daughter either. I know that we both hold her interests first. We do not communicate well, and I am not sure how I can bring up the topic of divorce. I know that this post is a bit disjointed but that's how my thoughts are at the moment. I just wanted to see if anyone had a similar experience that they could share or even some advice. I just feel so helpless right now.

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