He cancelled out date for another girl...

I met him on a night out, only spoke to him for about 5 mins whilst waiting for my friend in the smoking corner. He seemed like a really cool guy and showed me a quick video of him kitesurfing. I could tell he was also such a nice guy. That night, he asked me if I wanted to go on a date the following day and I agreed. When I got back home that night I messaged him a picture of my friends adorable puppy, he replied saying it was cute, I then asked him how his night went and go no reply. That was on the night i met him. I then left it there and didn't hear from him until about 2 months when he messaged me asking if i could fill out a form, he's a junior doctor and the form was about rating his performance etc. I didn't understand why he sent it to me but gave him my email and completed it. After sending a few texts I got talking about the night we met and then he'd realised he'd texted the wrong Emma and confessed, although he was thankful for me filling the form out anyway and asked me out for a drink to say thank you. We'd arranged it on a Thursday unknowingly that it was Valentines day, but we both agreed we weren't bothered and it would go ahead. It was now 3 days before Valentines day and i hadn't heard back from the text I sent. The day before V day I messaged again casually saying "Your the worst texter, everrrr. I don't know what what's happening for tomorrow anymore...but let me know because I'm thinking about going out in Newc to if not. x" He took until the end of the day to reply and said " I really am the worst texter of all time. You're going to think I'm a complete ******** but on Monday a girl at work (who I've liked for a while but was convinced nothing would ever happen) asked me out so I don't want to jeopardise that. Ive been trying to work out what to do for the last couple of days, and don't want to be unfair on you for meeting up anyway X " I was pretty hurt as I was excited for the date and liked him. I replied back "ok cool" No reply. I then realised he had WhatsApp and messaged "Ooo just realised your on this! cool pic. Didn't really know what to say when i replied. I don't think your a douche at all, well slightly... But glad u told me! Hope you have fun on Monday" Him " Hey! And your pic...wow. thanks for being so understanding, you're clearly a great girl. Sorry for being a douche! X" I left it there. But about 2/3 later I was drunk flicking through my WhatsApp and saw our chat convo, I then messaged him saying 'heheheh' the next morning I messaged him again "I don't know what that was about... I flicking through my WhatsApp list last night a bit drunk and bored in bed. lol " Disappointed he didn't reply but what was there to reply, I'm a girl who he met for 5 mins on a night out. Now....2 months after that, I added him SnapChat and he accepted.The day after I was messing around and sent all my contacts a slightly funny SnapChat. 2 days later take it to last night where he SnapChatted a picture of him with a drink in a club, with a caption "who needs a bank holiday" I then sent a black Snapchat as it was dark and I was in bed with a caption "looks packed! ;) Have a food night. In bed..." And drew a smiley face. Since I met him there's been one other guy who been casual and things turned out terrible, that's now recently over. I'm really wanting to meet up with valentines day cancellation guy, he's good looking, has a good job and is a nice guy. I know I need to act casual about speaking to him... I don't even know what happened with the girl he took out on V day, maybe there together... Who knows! I was thinking of dropping him a message, he likes kitesurfing, I've tried it a few times and am genuinely thinking of going to the beach with my dad (who's a keen kitesurfer) and giving it a go again. Invite him along, in which case he'll have already been to my front door and met my dad so he might as well come in and make a day of it with a family garden BBQ on the eve. I was thinking of texting on Friday "hey, I'm going kitesurfing tomorrow at the beach, #mikeLovesSurfing 😜 fancy coming?" Or should I just leave it and not bother? I guess most of the guys I know right now are either stuck up and think there something special or at the other end of the scale chavvy... I don't know any decent attractive guys.

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