another question for the ladies

when a girl gets dumped...and it was unexpected and out of nowhere sort of...and their heart is broken....is it possible for them to love themselves and love the next guy in their life? is the next guy someone they use to feel safe, adored, and needed....but is it subconciously in their mind to make that person fall in love with them and then make them feel the same pain they had felt? do people like to hurt when theyve been hurt? is it possible for them to love themselves and love the next guy truly? ike what does it mean when a girl gets dumped by a guy and gains 20-30 lbs(the gain may have started before actual dumping)....then enters a new relationship with a new guy probably a month to two after that....and talks about losing weight but never does.....eventually she dumps after a 2-3 year relationship and enters a new relationship immedietley....and loses the weight she had said she previously wanted to within 3-4 weeks.... what does it say about the obvious rebound relationship she entered after being dumped? was she so distraught and miserable with herself and the lost of her intial love that she just couldnt do it.....or was the 2nd guy someone she wasnt as attracted to(even if she had always known the guy and told her family how attractive she thought he was) and thought if she was teeny again he wouldnt be worthy of her??? does it say that a girl who obviously thinks her clock is ticking wants to look good again so she can trap a man before she gets real close to 30??

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