Why wallow is sarrow?

Reading the cheating section I am confused by a few things. 1. After the first time why deal with it? Drop her find someone new. Doesn't matter drunk, gender, communication, ect. I don't see matter man or woman you shouldn't have to put up with a cheating spouse, even if you have kids. 2. Why let them risk your lively hood? They could give you an STD. It's no secret on here that I have HIV. If I found out a future GF/W is cheated on me (EA and kissing included), shes gone. I could have very bad repercussions that could have an immediate impact on my health such as but not limited to liver failure, stroke, and even another stain of HIV I can't fight (and death). Along with depression that is shown to weaken my immune system. 3. Of course the breakup is gonna suck still doesn't mean you should have any sympathy, empathy, or regret for what they or you did in the relationship (some exceptions apply). I am not saying being completely apathetic just walk out with a smile and the biggest relief off your shoulders. If you have a GF/BF drop her start going out and living a happier life. If you have a W/H your going to have a period of feeling like crap regardless. After that live life up or spend more time doing awesome stuff with your kids. It may be that I am to young to understand completely, and I know I am missing a few points about money and living, but I have applied this to other, even flimsy, non- romantic relationships and it seems to work. If someone gives you BS its not your fault, its not your problem, and let them cry, walk away with a smile and never look back. Any other thoughts? Thank you!

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