What is wrong with me? Help please!

My husband and I got married last march before he deployed. He got back in October and when we got married he made me promise him that we would take transitioning into married life slowly. I accepted that obviously because I know marriage is a big deal to everyone, especially the man. Well it's been almost a whole year and his parents still don't know that we're married..they don't even know I exist. I bring it up to him all of the time and we just end up fighting like crazy about it because it makes me feel like he's embarrassed of me. which really hurts. When he got back from his deployment I found emails from a friend (girl) from his prior base with them saying that they missed each other and things like that. and also to another girl that he was deployed with and they met up for coffee (who knows what else) and he just kept saying how she seemed so shy and she was so pretty with alot of " ;) " faces... Since he came home we barely have sex. I try to have sex with him all of the time. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I'm doing wrong. I don't think in any way that I'm ugly and no one has ever called me ugly. but how do I know if he's even attracted to me? I'm so new to this still I don't know if I'm just over reacting or what I need to do. Someone please help?! Posted via Mobile Device

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