To Pursue or Not To Pursue

I have been trying to actively pursue this woman for almost 2 years. She is 30 and I am also. We are both single, never married, no children & we both live alone. I am mesmerized by her beautiful, self worth, ambition, goals and overall outlook on life. She is a rising business woman, has a great job and great career potential ahead of her. She is very independent and self motivated. I met her at a birthday party of one of my close friends. We danced, socialized and talked that night and at the end of the celebration we exchanged phone numbers. Since that night, we talk on the phone or text maybe once a week. We have been out on casual dates such as the Starbucks, IHOP---went to the museum once, then to a movie and then to a baseball game. It's been two years and all I've gotten so far is a hug and kiss on the cheek. I really like her and want to see more & more of her. A month ago, I fully expressed my feelings towards her. I complimented her on her qualities and talked about what an asset she would be in a relationship. We also talked about what I had to offer and bring into a relationship. She gave me great compliments also. She told me that she would like to be in a relationship, get married and have kids one day. I expressed that I'm looking for a relationship/partnership/love/romance that would lead to marriage and family. We had a great conversation that I felt really good about at the time. Now I'm not so sure. There has been no change in our relationship status. I didn't expect for her to go to bed with me after our conversation, but I did expect to feel more connected after we expressed ourselves. I don't mind initiating contact with her, but I feel like it's one way communication most of the time. If I don't call her, she doesn't call me. When we do talk she is very pleasant and has a lot to talk about in general. At times I think she maybe interested in me, but there are other times when I'm doubtful. She is involved in a lot of things, so when I call her up to ask her out, she has to literally go through her calendar to see what's open—this makes me feel like I'm just another appointment. What should I do? Should I be patient and hope that she warms up to me and connects? Should I let her actions speak louder than her words? Is she being truly honest about her feelings with me? Where do I go from here? How do I break down this barrier? Thanks for your advice and comments.

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