This is to the ladies who are upset thinking their man fantasizes about other women.

Some guy wrote this on a forum and It really elated me. It was a guys explanation on male fantasy, and this guy posted this in response. "I'm sorry, I'm a man, and I really have to disagree with this one, even if it puts me in the minority. Do our male minds put these fantasies in our heads? Yes. Are they okay? Absolutely not! Blaming it all on biology is irresponsible. There is such a thing as self control. Sure, these thoughts come into one's head out of nowhere, but we don't have to keep them there. As I heard it once put, "We can't prevent these thoughts from coming in, but we don't have to pull up a chair and invite them to stay." As these thoughts come, replace them with better ones (read: more faithful ones). Since the mind is like any other muscle, it can be trained, and as you do it consistently, you'll find that these thoughts become more and more scarce if they are consistently replaced. Is this hard? Like no other! Does it work? Yes it does. Is it worth it? I guess it depends on how committed you are to your wife/girlfriend. If it's only the actions that matter, I guess not. But if you want to be faithful to your sweetheart in your mind as well, then your commitment will be severely tested. The point is that women don't have to settle for men who think it's okay to fantasize about other women. For me, being faithful to my woman means not only physical relations, but also being faithful to her in my mind as well. I'm not perfect, but shooting for perfection is going to get me a lot farther than throwing up my hands in submission"

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