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Friendzoned (no way out?!!!)

So i'm a standard guy who fell for his best friend, told her how he felt and got rejected, but continued to stay friends. Sound familiar?

I know most people's advice would be to break contact but it's really not that simple. She is the first girl I've ever loved (or got close to) and whenever I try to ignore her, it hurts and I always go back to her cos she's such a nice girl. I know she genuinely cares about me deeply and that's what makes it harder for me to stay away.

The second reason I can't avoid her is cos she lives with me so I have to see her every day. This arrangement is in place at uni until june so there's no way out of that. She texts and talks to me everyday too which doesn't help.

Now more about the situation. She has a boyfriend and yesterday I heard them having sex in her room. That hurt like hell...in that moment I felt like she'd been using me. No matter how close we get and how much time we spend together, her boyfriend will always be the most important person in her life. I think this realization has been the turning point and I know things need to change. It's amazing how someone can make you so happy one time and the next make you feel at the lowest point on earth.

Advice? How can I get out of the friendzone?




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