Hi all,
A friend of mine told me about this forum and how good the advice given is so i thought i would write my issue here. I have recently been seeing a guy (we have only gone on a few dates), but things seemed to be going really well. However, last few days something has seemed off. When we were on the phone last night he got really weird and i sensed it so i said well i am going to go.
He then text me saying he is really attracted to me, thinks i have an amazing personality, and thinks we could be great together and everything tells him i am the right girl for him, but he doesn't think he is into me as much as i am into him and he is worried he will never get to that point. I responded saying that he can't help if he isn't feeling it but he sounds very unsure and uneasy about everything and i don't think it should be that way and if you like someone you just know.
This morning he said the thought of us not talking or seeing each other anymore makes him unhappy....and if i still want to see him again would i give him one more chance for another date (we were supposed to see each other this week). I responded and said i didn't think so as i doubt one more date would change anything and it is like he is trying to convince himself and it just feels tarnished now.
He responded saying if i change my mind to let him know, and then he asked me do i think it is possible for someones feelings to grow, or if he isn't feeling it now do i think he will never be feeling it? He then said he wants to be with me so he must have some sort of feelings. I didn't really know what to say to that so i didn't reply. Do you think just cutting contact now is for the best? If he isn't that interested i doubt he will contact again now anyway.I just found it a bit all over the place.
A friend of mine told me about this forum and how good the advice given is so i thought i would write my issue here. I have recently been seeing a guy (we have only gone on a few dates), but things seemed to be going really well. However, last few days something has seemed off. When we were on the phone last night he got really weird and i sensed it so i said well i am going to go.
He then text me saying he is really attracted to me, thinks i have an amazing personality, and thinks we could be great together and everything tells him i am the right girl for him, but he doesn't think he is into me as much as i am into him and he is worried he will never get to that point. I responded saying that he can't help if he isn't feeling it but he sounds very unsure and uneasy about everything and i don't think it should be that way and if you like someone you just know.
This morning he said the thought of us not talking or seeing each other anymore makes him unhappy....and if i still want to see him again would i give him one more chance for another date (we were supposed to see each other this week). I responded and said i didn't think so as i doubt one more date would change anything and it is like he is trying to convince himself and it just feels tarnished now.
He responded saying if i change my mind to let him know, and then he asked me do i think it is possible for someones feelings to grow, or if he isn't feeling it now do i think he will never be feeling it? He then said he wants to be with me so he must have some sort of feelings. I didn't really know what to say to that so i didn't reply. Do you think just cutting contact now is for the best? If he isn't that interested i doubt he will contact again now anyway.I just found it a bit all over the place.
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