Ok, this is definitely a somewhat petty and kind of offhand question, so don't fret that I'm really worried at all regardless of what my husband is thinking, I just am asking out of pure curiosity..and I know that not ALL men think this way.
Tonight, me and my husband were chatting about life,etc and he's in a very stressed out place with his job. He then offhandedly told me that one co worker who is a complete jerk to everyone in the office was showing off photos of his recent wedding. My husband then tells me that he doesn't understand how a jerk like that gets to marry a prom queen...I may be reading into it, but it caught me off guard, because I don't think my husband is superficial enough to base someone's worth off of their looks alone, yet he has never met the woman and seems to think she's God's gift or something. Well, this made me feel slightly inadequate and almost feeling like he was implying that he feels like he deserves more than this co worker and is jealous that he got to marry a prom queen. Can I have some sort of answer from both men and women on this? Seems like this is a common string of thought for men, when looking at a slightly unattractive man with an attractive woman...whereas my viewpoi nt as a woman would have me thinking that if I know a bad person who just got married....whether their spouse is attractive or not, if I haven't met them, I probably judge their spouse as equally bad or just unintelligent...
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Tonight, me and my husband were chatting about life,etc and he's in a very stressed out place with his job. He then offhandedly told me that one co worker who is a complete jerk to everyone in the office was showing off photos of his recent wedding. My husband then tells me that he doesn't understand how a jerk like that gets to marry a prom queen...I may be reading into it, but it caught me off guard, because I don't think my husband is superficial enough to base someone's worth off of their looks alone, yet he has never met the woman and seems to think she's God's gift or something. Well, this made me feel slightly inadequate and almost feeling like he was implying that he feels like he deserves more than this co worker and is jealous that he got to marry a prom queen. Can I have some sort of answer from both men and women on this? Seems like this is a common string of thought for men, when looking at a slightly unattractive man with an attractive woman...whereas my viewpoi nt as a woman would have me thinking that if I know a bad person who just got married....whether their spouse is attractive or not, if I haven't met them, I probably judge their spouse as equally bad or just unintelligent...
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