We got married in 2014 Dec after dating for 2 years.
Before we wedded, we would go out to dine, watch movies. Every weekend we would go out for brunch. Everyday after work we would dine out to spend time with each other. He is really good to me.
After we started staying together, because we get to see each other all the time without having to go out, he has an issue with going out. Even if I need to go and get groceries. He is a good man but its so hard to get him to step out of the house.
I love to cook and I am an above average cook so its not like I cook yucky stuff. So I am okay with eating in. But even that he has issues with. He doesn't really enjoy food. So no matter what I whipped up, he would be ambivalent. Going to the market, for him, is like doing me a favor. He actually brought this up to score points when we fight over this reluctance to go out issue.
Because of this, I have no life. Everyday, I am home bound with no social life. We dont go out at all. We dont do things together. Sometimes we go for meals and movies. But thats about it.
I love to travel. But he doesn't . And honestly he sucks as a travel buddy because he doesnt enjoy it so it dampens my mood. But because of this I cannot explore places with him and it makes me sad because he is my husband and I want to do these things with him.
I hate my life now.
Then as if things are not bad enough, our sex life sucks.
Its not enjoyable at all.
I feel that marriage is really overrated and I wish I could turn back time. I really hate myself for going into this union.
Before we wedded, we would go out to dine, watch movies. Every weekend we would go out for brunch. Everyday after work we would dine out to spend time with each other. He is really good to me.
After we started staying together, because we get to see each other all the time without having to go out, he has an issue with going out. Even if I need to go and get groceries. He is a good man but its so hard to get him to step out of the house.
I love to cook and I am an above average cook so its not like I cook yucky stuff. So I am okay with eating in. But even that he has issues with. He doesn't really enjoy food. So no matter what I whipped up, he would be ambivalent. Going to the market, for him, is like doing me a favor. He actually brought this up to score points when we fight over this reluctance to go out issue.
Because of this, I have no life. Everyday, I am home bound with no social life. We dont go out at all. We dont do things together. Sometimes we go for meals and movies. But thats about it.
I love to travel. But he doesn't . And honestly he sucks as a travel buddy because he doesnt enjoy it so it dampens my mood. But because of this I cannot explore places with him and it makes me sad because he is my husband and I want to do these things with him.
I hate my life now.
Then as if things are not bad enough, our sex life sucks.
Its not enjoyable at all.
I feel that marriage is really overrated and I wish I could turn back time. I really hate myself for going into this union.
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