So. A little history. Met my now husband at 18. He was 21. We had a great relationship but I was greedy and wanted more attention. Some days I got none and I was very needy. I broke up with him, he was DEVASTATED. We got back together and he realized I wasn't completely into it and broke up with me. We were still seeing each other a lot and having sex. He wouldn't tell me if he wanted to be with me. Every question I asked him had an "I don't know" answer. I got pregnant. He massively tried to pressure me into abortion. I don't believe in abortion, loved him, and always wanted kids. He stuck with me bc it was the right thing to do. Proposed a few days before we had her and we got married when she was 1.5. He has been unemotional ever since but better. Our daughter is now two and he is a good dad to her. I'm 22 and he's now 26. He used to compliment me a little and hold my hand often, tell me sweet thins, was never mean. Now he barely smiles. We a ct like brother and sister. We go through periods of having great sex with a little happiness. To him being all depressed and distant. He says he isn't depressed and doesn't have many signs. He has interests and can talk about things a lot.
I tell him exactly the things I need from him and he doesn't do them. I could be crying in bed next to him and he'd go to sleep. I don't know what to do. He says he isn't good at talking about things. Help please! Sorry for ranting.
I tell him exactly the things I need from him and he doesn't do them. I could be crying in bed next to him and he'd go to sleep. I don't know what to do. He says he isn't good at talking about things. Help please! Sorry for ranting.
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