Hey guys. So fiance and I had our baby last month. Baby is now nearly a month old.
My question is more directed at those new fathers or even fathers that remember the postpartum daysin their relationship. However, for those that haven't been there, feel free to chime in!
Anyways, how the hell did you guys make it through the 6-8 weeks of abstinence postpartum? Just curious to know. Me? I'm having a rough time of it. Went from sex EVERY day for the 9 month pregnancy (and even before that it was every other day at the least) to abstinence, going on 4 weeks. I'm in no way pressuring my fiance, I know that there is the healing process, but I'm coping. Did your s/o help you out in "other" ways? Did she just disregard you and focus on baby? Please share.
My question is more directed at those new fathers or even fathers that remember the postpartum daysin their relationship. However, for those that haven't been there, feel free to chime in!
Anyways, how the hell did you guys make it through the 6-8 weeks of abstinence postpartum? Just curious to know. Me? I'm having a rough time of it. Went from sex EVERY day for the 9 month pregnancy (and even before that it was every other day at the least) to abstinence, going on 4 weeks. I'm in no way pressuring my fiance, I know that there is the healing process, but I'm coping. Did your s/o help you out in "other" ways? Did she just disregard you and focus on baby? Please share.
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