Newly married and already having doubts :/

My wife and I have been together for about a month now and many of the things I was worried about prior to the wedding have come back to mind. Before the wedding I had conversations with my parents and friends about how concerned I was that she was boring, not intelligent, immature/sheltered, and just didn't really have any sort of unique traits about her. Basically that I was settling and I kind of knew it. Between when I started dating her before I started college and now that I have graduated and am in grad school I have changed tremendously as a person. I went along with the engagement and marriage without really thinking it through because it seemed like a natural procession plus her family was really into weddings. Guys out there know that you'll do some stupid things for a girl without much thought, and for me that including going along with the marriage stuff to easily. Either way, I asked myself a question recently. If I was single and all of my female friends were single would I pick her out of a crowd and date her again. The answer was no and that greatly concerned me. The person she started dating is no longer who I am but she really hasn't changed much. Essentially, she bores me a lot. She cannot entertain herself, and has no real hobbies that I haven't introduced to her (save one which she rarely does). I do not enjoy her family and she doesn't really fit in with my friends, who all think we got married to quickly and don't fit well together (which no one told me in the first place). I've come to the conclusion that I don't really want to be married right now, but now I'm in one and am moderately happy for about half the time. I'm never thrilled that I'm married or have yet to have the I'm so lucky feeling that other couples have. I do care for her and love her, but I don't know if I still will in a few months. I don't want to be wasting her time or mine, but I am basically the center of her world and she just isn't that high of a priority for me right now sad to say. I thought the feelings prior the wedding were just cold feet but they have all come back anyway :/ Any advice or anything would be great, more importantly I just wanted a place to write it all down. I may write more later who knows but I just wanted to put it up here. Also, she is allergic to dogs and dogs are one of my favorite things. So I can never have a dog.

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