| My marriage currently isn't in a good spot but this is something that's been bothering me even when things weren't bad. I have no presence in my wife's FB or Instagram. She definitely uses these sites more for seeing everyone else's feed but she does post every so often. I've tried not to make a bigger deal about this than it really it is but I do wonder why my wife doesn't post pics of us together or post a nice sentiment directed at me. I certainly don't want to be a couple where every post/pic is saying how great their spouse is but something would be nice. For example, she has about 200 pics on FB and 30 on Instagram and none are of me and her together. I'm in 5 of those pics but they are family pics and not just us. She says she's a private person and doesn't want to put her private life out there but at the same time she post pics of her and her friends, sisters, co-workers, our kids...but no me. Years ago I had to push to get her to link our FB's as married. Geez! I'll say something nice on her FB on our anniversary or her birthday but I don't even get a "like" out of her let alone a reply comment. This should be trivial (is trivial) and we really do have bigger issues to work on but this just makes me feel like she was never proud of me or our relationship. I've expressed to her that it would be nice if even once she gave me some FB love...still nothing. Why does this bother me? Should I take my FB absence as a sign that she never really held our relationship in high regard? | |||
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