| My husband of 8 years was a virgin when we married. Over time he has become progressively more obsessed with the idea of sleeping with another woman - just once to see what it is like. Our sex life was amazing when we first met, but 2 kids later we have slowed down a little (still 4-5 times a week). I felt comfortable with the quantity of sex but no he says he wants marathon sex sessions. He watches porn and masturbates about 3 times a day also but he is obsessed with sex (the porn and masturbating do not bother me at all). He also brings up swinging, sex clubs, sex shows to see if i would be interested. I know i am not comfortable with sex outside of marriage and made this very clear before we got married. He says he would never cheat so will only do it with my permission. I feel like i am in a loose/loose situation. Do i let him do it once an hope that's the end of it (knowing it might be something i cant get passed) or stop him and have him obsess himself to the point of cheating. He brings it up about 10 times a week. Where does it stop, if i let him do it once will he just start obsessing about 3somes, different girls etc... aagh We have an otherwise fantastic marriage, home life but just keep going round and round on this one issue which neither of us can get past - I need help!! | |||
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