I feel like no one cares about my coming baby

I am 7 months pregnant and wish I was happy. I am happy about this baby, but now we're looking to pay $3,000 to finish the basement for my BIL instead of spending the money getting ready for baby. Here's the story.. Well my sympathy towards my MIL has finally bitten me in the *ss. 2 years ago husband and I decided that she and her son could move in with us and pay us rent that is way cheaper than what she paid in her old place. My BIL is 27 and doesn't work, sleeps all day, don't do chores, or help her pay rent, etc.. (and MIL lets him). I am from Asia and a family where we respect the elders. I felt sorry for my MIL.. (MIL is from Asia but her children grew up here). The longer they live here, the more I hate BIL for not doing anything (I am crazy, aren't I?). Husband had been trying to get BIL to get a job but of course, BIL never listens. Beginning of 2013 I found out I'm pregnant. I asked my husband to tell them to move out when I was 4 months (because it's impossible to just tell BIL to move out). He didn't do anything, until I deliberately hurt myself (I didn't hurt the baby). When MIL was told that, she gave me silent treatment. Maybe about two weeks ago, I had no choice but to speak to BIL ('cause husband would never do it), that I'd need his room in a month 'cause my family is coming. Of course he asked that we finish the basement for him to sleep in. I was defeated, I just said I will talk to my husband. Oh, he also said, "why do you guys decide to have a baby so fast?" and my dad paid his accommodation (not the plane ticket) to my wedding 6 years ago. Some people say (I'm in Canada) that I can give him eviction notice and call the cops if he doesn't leave by the date. But somehow, I just want a divorce. I am tired of dealing with him and his family. My husband never wants to talk about this, either ignores me just by giving me "hmm" response or change the subject. He doesn't talk about what's going on in the house to MIL and BIL either. Like when my dad came last time, he never told them, twice. I asked him to tell BIL the date that my mom is coming but I have a feeling that he will never do it. I used to contribute to the house but stopped since they came. Recently husband asked me to contribute some again, which I did partly.. partly I refused because it's not fair that we all contribute except for BIL. He was pissed at me. I am giving him silent treatment most of the time, hoping that he'd either get me a divorce or get his family to get their **** together. Thanks for reading..

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