| Just the quick background: we have been married 13 years and I found out he cheated with one of my best friends a year ago but I just found out about it on June 15th and I filed for divorce on June 28th. We have a 60 day waiting period in Texas and we are in the discovery process and are using our attorneys to has our the settlement. We have felt disconnected for years and he supposedly had ED issues so our sex life was non-existent and the fact that he cheated made it even harder to take. We are both still living under the same roof and he usually sleeps downstairs on the couch or in our son's room on his bed. I have told him he can use our bed to sleep when I am not home as he works night shifts & I work days. On July 16th, right before I had to get up for work he came in our (my) room and laid on top of the blankets and threw his arm over me. I got up for work 15 minutes later and when I asked him about it later he said he "was just saying hi" per his explanation. No further contact or sleeping in my bed after that incident. This morning he came in our (my) room and actually got under the blankets and cuddled with me and held my hands about 15 minutes before my alarm went off to get ready for work. I can't remember the last time we cuddled. I asked him about it today and he said he couldn't sleep and was tossing and turning and he didn't want to make me mad so he came upstairs right before my alarm went off. Any clue into the male psyche as to why he is doing this?:scratchhead: | |||
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