Pages

Search blog and web

Communication frequently is not the issue. Blowing off what is communicated is

Sure plenty struggle with poor communication but it is nowhere near as rampant as so many claim.

Poor communication is the "go to" default excuse for a lack of results solving problems.

When desired results are not realized, after communicating clearly with a spouse, those lack of results get blamed on poor communication so frequently it's absurd.

The blame for a lack of results should be placed on a spouse choosing to fully maintain their own preferences despite their spouses requests.

When a given issue is clearly communicated and then blown off, that is not a communication issue with the attribute that it was not clear enough.

Rather it is a spouses choice to maintain the status quo.

The indicator the blame is at the wrong door step is when someone is asking "how can I get my spouse to understand?"

Typically they do understand and choose to not care.

A better question is "how to I get them to care enough to change ?" (when perhaps they don't want to)

If you are going round and round and round repeating yourself without results, it isn't a failure to communicate. It's battling motivation.

IFTTT

Put the internet to work for you.

Turn off or edit this Recipe

No comments:

Post a Comment