What are your boundaries in committed relationships/marriage?

Hi everyone,

I'm curious about boundaries and I thought it would be an interesting topic.
What are your boundaries?

For example, are you okay with your girlfriend/wife or boyfriend/husband talking to an opposite sex friend about life decisions, job, relationship issues? Are you okay with him/her talking on the phone with an opposite sex friend? How long is " too long "? Are you okay with him/her hanging out with an opposite sex friend? Are you okay with him/her having opposite sex friends at all? For all of the questions above, please add why or why not. When does it become an emotional affair for you?

Are you okay with porn? (videos, nude pictures, etc) or do you consider it " mentally cheating "? Why or why not?

Also, in physical terms, are you okay with him/her hugging an opposite sex friend? Are you okay with the side cheek kiss?

Basically just asking for everyone's (male and female) insights on what your boundaries are.

I'm not asking for myself, I have my own boundaries, but I'm just curious about everyone else's feelings and insights. :)

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