My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 18 months now. The topic of marriage always comes up, and when it does, I get very excited and then he turns around and says "I'm not ready". Reasons why he says this is because he feels like 1. he isn't manly enough to wed, 2. he doesn't have enough income to wed, 3. he is just not ready. He always says "I can sense you are ready and have been ready for some time to get married, but I'm not ready yet." I keep saying that I can't wait forever and don't want to wait for years to finally say "I do".
What advice can people give with this situation? I just feel that he isn't as committed as he says he is. He is always telling me to be patient, but as a woman I can't wait forever. I love him, I really do, I just feel like I am miles ahead of him and he will never catch up.
What do I do?
What advice can people give with this situation? I just feel that he isn't as committed as he says he is. He is always telling me to be patient, but as a woman I can't wait forever. I love him, I really do, I just feel like I am miles ahead of him and he will never catch up.
What do I do?
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