In my other post it I told you that my husband has LD/ ED trying to get him help. He's going to get his blood test in the next couple of weeks to check his levels- even if they come back low my husband will not take testosterone. Looking into something natural.
How do you deal with your spouse that has LD? Do you still ask for sex or just deal with it? I feel strange always the one to bring it up and I can tell my husband is not interested but will do it because he feels obligated. It's not fun and hurts me inside. I miss the times that he was after me and interested and looked forward to sex.
Last night he knew I wanted to have sex it's been a week, I brought it up he looked like it was another chore to do. He fell asleep on the couch then we watched tv together and then he asked me what time should He should take his pill ( Viagra)
Later I got him going and then we had sex he came in 1 min. He then took care of me. I didn't mind because last week he couldn't come after 30 min and gave up. It did seem to bother him that he only lasted a minute.
What bothers me is he is not excited to have sex.
Emotionally how do you deal with it? This might never change even though I'm hoping it will. I get resentful and what to stop dwelling on this. If I don't bring up sex it will not happen and he probably would be happy!
Any tips would be great!
How do you deal with your spouse that has LD? Do you still ask for sex or just deal with it? I feel strange always the one to bring it up and I can tell my husband is not interested but will do it because he feels obligated. It's not fun and hurts me inside. I miss the times that he was after me and interested and looked forward to sex.
Last night he knew I wanted to have sex it's been a week, I brought it up he looked like it was another chore to do. He fell asleep on the couch then we watched tv together and then he asked me what time should He should take his pill ( Viagra)
Later I got him going and then we had sex he came in 1 min. He then took care of me. I didn't mind because last week he couldn't come after 30 min and gave up. It did seem to bother him that he only lasted a minute.
What bothers me is he is not excited to have sex.
Emotionally how do you deal with it? This might never change even though I'm hoping it will. I get resentful and what to stop dwelling on this. If I don't bring up sex it will not happen and he probably would be happy!
Any tips would be great!
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