help,need some info from people that have been through this(mid life crisis?)

hello
been lurking here for awhile,i'll try to keep this short as possible.
so a few months back my wife of 11 yrs joked about a 3 way and when I asked if she knew what she was saying,she would would not look me in the eye's and said "well do you".

I was completely shocked as she is totally straight laced(I thought)

-now out of now where she has shaved down south!?
-recently mentioned she might like a boob job ! wtf? I have always been happy with her body

-this is a question for the ladies,do you refure to your girl friends as hey beautifull,i miss you/love you/honey?when texting?

-she has a girl friend that always acts really funny around me(never thought about it till now)

-said girl friend NEVER comes to visit when I'm home,she is married(I work out of town a lot)

-we both recently turned 38,mid life crisis for her?

- my spidey sense has been tingling for a awhile,recently took 6 months off to spend time with family because of it.thought it was all good,but these questions are eating a hole in me(again)

- got a VAR but haven't got anything from it yet,mostly because I suck with spying.

-I feel like an ******* to even think about this stuff

-also wondering,is there a secret code with the periods when texting ex.thanks for the birthday presents...or come for coffee....?

-also have 4 young kids in picture which I love more than life itself.
- how do you find hidden/deleted messages on computer or cell(I think s5)
am I crazy or seeing things where I shouldn't?

any info would be greatly appreciated
thanks
joe schmuck(not my real name for obvious reasons


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