I was previously in a relationship with a girl for 2 years and we had quite a lot of sex. Generally, none of us would ever reject each other if one felt like having sex. I mean this is normal, right? Of course it's normal to reject your partner if you have a valid reason, e.g. bad stomach, on your period etc..
As I really liked her, even if I wasn't feeling "like it" too much, I would still go ahead to make her happy and she would do the same for me which was great for both. We would usually have sex every night and every morning, plus sometimes during the day if we were home and feeling horny.
Now with my new girlfriend, first thing I've noticed is that she never really initiates the sex, it's me most of the time. She does it if I wait a long time without trying, but usually this is too long for me. Ideally, I like to have sex 2 times a day.. she does it only if I wait like a week or something. The worst thing is that we are in a long distance relationship, so I really don't feel like wasting our quality time together just waiting for her to initiate..
Sometimes, night or morning, she just rejects me for no reason. I mean I guess this is normal and I was just used to too good in my previous relationship from this aspect? In any case, it makes me feel unwanted and I tend to get pretty pissed off. I mean rejecting to have sex to me is a bit like saying "go away, I don't want you". Usually I just leave it and go sleep on the other side of the bed, but sometimes I feel like just walking out of the house.
Do you girls reject your boyfriends approaches to have sex with no good reason? Is this just completely normal?
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