Several months ago I found out my husband was meeting women in hotels with champagne and condoms during the year that I was very ill. During that time, he came with me to all my doctor's appointments and acted as if he cared about me. But when I was able to go back to work, I discovered later discovered credit card statements of hotels, expensive dinners, etc. He claims that the meetings were "only physical" and he said he wants to stay with me. I have been doing much better health-wise and we have talked at great length about his betrayal. He claims that he was "just curious" and that he never got emotionally involved with anyone, which he considered to be worse than physical. It appears that he has been trying to mend our relationship, but I feel that I need to monitor him. I feel that I need to check his cell phone calls (which haven't revealed anything) but I can't monitor his computer at his job. Also, I feel that he has simply found new ways t o hide his "evidence." I'm afraid that he bought one of those "Trac Phones." He used to have yahoo messenger which he admitted to using to talk with women, but claims that he deleted that account. However, whenever he logs onto his laptop, "yahoo messenger" pops up. While I'm around, he seems to be looking up innocent sites, but I'm afraid that as soon as I leave the room, he may be secretly contacting someone. I told him that nobody buys champagne and hotels rooms for someone that they're not emotionally involved with. Last year he was buying new clothes, wearing cologne which he kept in his car secretly, but he claims it's all over and that he wants to stay with me. Is there a way that I can find out for sure?
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